My ideal diet

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I’ve been thinking a lot, over the last couple of weeks, what my “ideal diet” would be. Not diet as in weight loss program, but “diet” defined as
Diet
n.
1. The usual food and drink of a person or animal.
I have made many changes to my daily “diet” in the past years, from my stint as a vegetarian/vegan, to fad weight-loss diets such as Special K, South Beach and Slim Fast, to more reasonable, health conscious approaches such as Body for Life and Ayurveda.
Many of these changes were purely for cosmetic reasons; I wanted to be skinny, or skinnier. I wanted to lose weight. I lost the weight, lost too much weight, and gained much of it back. At this point, as I have mentioned countless times before, I am striving for a balance.
But a balance of what?
Good foods and bad foods. But what ARE “good foods” and “bad foods”, and what kind of balance needs to come of them?
The questions above are not the easiest ones to answer.
Currently, this quote, from one of my favourite authors, Michael Pollan (In Defense of Food, The Omnivore’s Dilemma) has struck a chord with me:
“Eat food, not too much, mostly plants”
In my day to day life (busy student), as well as my future career (chef), it is HARD to maintain a balanced diet. Stress, lack of time to prepare, lack of ENERGY to prepare healthful foods, and somewhat lack of motivation all stand in the way of my “ideal diet”.
But this quote, six words, simple and clear, sum it up beautifully.
“Good Foods” are foods that are nourishing. Nutrient dense, fiber-rich fruits and vegetables, lower fat sources of protein such as lean meats (chicken, turkey, pork), fish (bonus omega 3’s!), beans and tofu, low fat dairy and dairy substitutes, healthy fats such as nuts, unsaturated oils (olive, canola), coconut, whole grains. Foods that are enjoyable, but also healthful.
“Bad foods” are foods to be eaten in moderation. Butter, fatty foods- including higher fat meats (beef, lamb, duck), potato chips and other snacks, fried foods. Sweets such as candy, cake, ice cream and cookies.
But really, there are no bad foods. Everything in moderation is key.
A balance of “good foods” and “bad foods” is eating foods, that, most of the time, make you feel good, are healthful and beneficial to your body (including superfoods, that are SUPER good for your body), in quantities that are reasonable- so that you are full and nourished, but not overstuffed or uncomfortable. Once in a while, it is okay to indulge. Sometimes we eat a little too much, and that is okay- as long as it isn’t to the point of bingeing. Sometimes we go a day, or two or three, without eating a single whole grain, or a piece of fruit. This is ok, because if, in the long run, you choose more whole grains than not, more fruits and vegetables than sweets and empty calorie foods, more unsaturated fats than saturated, more plant foods than animal foods, your body will balance itself out.
The human body is a beautiful thing. It has the ability to adapt, and is BUILT to balance itself out, if you give it the right tools to do it.
So what is an “ideal diet”?
An ideal diet is one that combines all of the things mentioned above; balance of “good” and “bad” foods, foods that provide nourishment and those that are only for pleasure; in short whatever works for YOU.
Some may chose vegetarianism, veganism or raw foods as their ideal diet. Others chose to live off of the SAD (Standard American Diet; not my suggestion). Some people chose to go to extremes, such as frutitarians and macrobiotics. It is possible to live healthfully on any of these diets (with the exception of SAD), as long as one is well informed.
Personally, my ideal diet is somewhere in the middle. I enjoyed my time as a vegetarian, and my short stint as a vegan. However, when it comes to pleasure, as well as my future career as a chef, I love food, all kinds of food too much to label myself as such. I would prefer to eat a healthful diet, by “Eating food, not too much, mostly plants,” and avoid stereotypes and labels.
However, I feel the best when I eat a high raw, vegan diet. Why? Well, it is simple- my body rejects foods it can not process easily. I have many sensitivities, including dairy, artificial sweeteners and high-gluten foods (although I am not fully intolerant).
When my diet is high in fruits and vegetables, nuts and seeds, beans and lower in meat, fish, dairy, eggs and grains I feel better overall. I have more energy, my skin glows, and my stomach problems vanish.
But this kind of diet, 100% of the time, is impossible for me. I not only feed myself, but I also feed my meat-loving boyfriend, who is, slowly, becoming more accepting of some of the “weird” foods I eat, and he is at least willing to try to eat healthier with me. Still, I would never deprive him of his favorite foods (meat, cheese, bread… standard “guy stuff”). I am trying to come to a happy medium in which I can eat the way I want to eat, not spend too much extra money, and don’t make him feel deprived.
I love the idea of raw foods. And eventually, maybe one day, I will be mostly raw. However, getting to that point is going to be a journey for me, and a long one at that. At this point, getting to my ideal diet is focusing on:
-increasing my intake of fruits and vegetables
-increasing my intake of raw foods; trying for at least 1 raw meal per day
-reducing the amount of cow’s dairy I consume (no more milk or cheese, unless it is goat; exceptions for now being yogurt and froyo)
- reducing the amount of artificial sweeteners I consume (soda, sparkling water, gum; exception is Stevia because it is all natural)
-reducing the amount of grains I eat overall, and when I do, making them whole grains (I already do this frequently)
-greatly reducing the amount of meat I eat over all; especially red meat (lean meats 2-3 times per week, total)
-increasing the amount of superfoods I eat- the healthier, the better!
-trying to encourage Nick to eat more of my healthy foods, but not forcing him; and coming to a happy medium
-being more creative with my eats!!
And overall: Getting back to my healthy, feel good diet- and weight.
Ideally, with time, I will:
- eliminate all artificial sweeteners from my diet (including diet soda and gum- I am an addict!)
- eat mostly raw/vegan (raw until dinner, for the most part)
- eliminate all refined grains from my diet, and grains no more than 1x/day except on special occasions
- eliminate cow’s dairy (eating only small amounts of goat dairy)
- reducing, or even eliminating all red meat from my diet
-find and maintain my “happy weight” without effort for years to come
As you can see, these are high-reaching goals, and I know it will take me a long time, months and even years, to get to the point I want to be at. At some point, I may feel as though what I am doing is enough. When I am back at my healthy weight, my skin is clear again, I sleep better and my stomach problems are reduced significantly, I will probably feel that is a good place to stay. For now, it is all about getting to that point.
Now for all of you out there, What is your “ideal diet”, and have you gotten there yet?? If you are there, how long did it take you to get there? I’d love to hear your responses!
xo
K
Random Note: Nick suggested the “condiment diet”, in which one eats nothing but ketchup, mustard, relish and mayo for an entire day. We discovered it would take 400 tablespoons of mustard, or 80 tablespoons of ketchup, per day, to consume 2,000 calories. Ew, Nick.